Neopronouns refers to sets of pronouns commonly used by transgender or gender nonconforming individuals which differ from she/her, he/him, or they/them. These pronouns are a set of words used in place of someone’s name; therefore, they don’t have an implied gender attached to them.
While “neo” infers that neopronouns are a new invention, this isn’t strictly true. As early as 1858, sets of gender-neutral pronouns have been used in English, and have been included in dictionaries such as Webster's International Dictionary (1910)- neopronouns have been present in regional dialects of English ever since.
There are several sets of common neopronouns (such as xe/xem or zie/hir) and are used by people whose relationship with gender tends to be more complicated than other pronouns allow for. This typically applies to neurodivergent people, but people anywhere on the gender spectrum may identify with these pronouns - it’s not restrictive.
However, neurodivergent people (and especially autistic people - but not all) may find it difficult to understand gender. Since the concept of gender is socially constructed at its core and can vary in meanings, it can be hard to define or declare with certainty; pronouns such as she/her, he/him, or they/them may not be adequate enough to express this complex relationship. Thus, people may choose to use neopronouns, feeling that they are a suitable alternative and, most importantly, are what comfortably expresses the individual’s gender.
It is also not uncommon for transgender or GNC people with a first language other than English to use neopronouns. This could be due to their culture or language not accommodating for gender-neutral pronouns. Many modern languages are gender neutral, but the commonly used pronouns may not be inclusive enough for an individual.
Regardless of your personal views on gender and sexuality, it is always important to respect others’ identities and ask about pronouns if you are unsure of how to refer to someone.
Written by Ty Sparkles
Artwork by Izzy Johns
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